Balancing Mindset, Expectations, and Support in Your Athlete’s Journey
In today’s highly competitive environment, youth athletes face numerous challenges beyond just physical performance. Whether in field hockey, soccer, lacrosse, football, basketball, or baseball, athletes often encounter days when they’re sore, stiff, or not feeling their best. This is where the power of mindset plays a crucial role. The mental aspect of sports is often overlooked, but it can be the deciding factor between an average performance and a winning one.
Understanding the Difference: Sore vs. Hurt
Athletes need to be clear about whether they are experiencing normal soreness or if they are truly injured. There’s a significant difference between pushing through a little discomfort and risking further injury. It’s important for athletes to assess whether they can still contribute to their team or if playing would be detrimental. A common misconception among athletes is the belief that they must always bring their “A game.” However, as competitive athletes, it’s critical to learn how to perform even when not at their best, sometimes working with their “B game” or “C game.”
Professional pitchers often discuss how in a season of 25 starts, only a handful feel like they are in perfect control, some are complete off days, and the rest fall somewhere in between. It’s in those in-between games that the true competitor has to dig in and make the most of what they have that day. This mindset applies across sports: whether it’s at-bats in baseball or pitch performance in softball, there will be ups and downs, and resilience is key.
Navigating the Recruiting Landscape
When athletes are in high school and not receiving recruitment calls, it doesn’t necessarily mean something is wrong. Recruiting today is vastly different from previous generations. It’s important for parents and athletes to stay focused on their individual journey, understanding that everyone’s path is unique. The recruiting process is about finding the right fit, considering academic, social, and geographic factors, not just athletic talent. Patience, perseverance, and a clear understanding of one’s goals and “why” are crucial.
Managing Expectations and the Weight of Pressure
Youth athletes often bear the weight of high expectations, whether from coaches, parents, or themselves. It’s essential for these athletes to have an outlet, whether that be talking to someone, journaling, or another form of release. Ignoring the stress doesn’t make it go away, so finding ways to work through it is vital. Athletes should focus on what they can control: being good students, good teammates, and constantly improving their craft. A supportive environment with positive reinforcement helps keep them on the right track.
The Role of Parents: Post-Game Decompression and Communication with Coaches
After competitions, it’s beneficial for parents to give their child space to decompress rather than immediately diving into a breakdown of the game. Athletes, especially after physically and mentally exhausting games, might not be ready to discuss their performance. Parents should communicate their support by letting their children know they’re available for conversation when the athlete is ready, rather than pushing for immediate analysis.
When it comes to communicating with coaches, a shift should begin in middle school where the responsibility of communication gradually transitions to the student-athletes themselves. Learning to self-advocate, ask questions, and seek feedback directly from coaches is an essential skill. However, if there are serious concerns, such as a safety issue, parents should still step in appropriately.
The Importance of Mental Performance Coaching
Mental performance coaching can be incredibly valuable for athletes. It provides a space for them to vent, address their anxieties, and build stable confidence that isn’t solely dependent on outcomes. Whether facing the yips or managing unrealistic expectations, the goal is for athletes to trust themselves, understand that bad games are normal, and focus on their response and recovery.
Tamra and Walter Beede’s discussions aim to offer perspective, not judgment. The goal is to support parents, athletes, and coaches by sharing insights that can enhance the youth sports experience. Youth sports are a massive industry, and the most affected are our children. By recognizing the importance of mental performance and providing the right support, we can help young athletes navigate this complex landscape successfully.
For those interested in learning more about mental performance coaching, you can reach out to Tamra at EliteMindsetDevelopment.com or via email at EliteMindsetDevelopment@gmail.com.
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